Resolutions for 2006

McPhisto · Post by **McPhisto** » Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:43 pm

frosty was recently divorced.. prolly why he in DAoC much more now.. our win really!

lilae - i can give you a hand with that if you like..

Lager · Post by **Lager** » Wed Jan 04, 2006 9:12 pm

McPhisto wrote:frosty was recently divorced.. prolly why he in DAoC much more now.. our win really!

Well it looks I am about to join that not so exclusive club now too. i gave it my best but when it comes down to it, it wasn't me actually. She doesn't feel it and i can't make her. Once she is settled in and what not I guess I will be doing some things for me for a change. I've always wanted to have a drink or two or five or six with Lilae and Turc so that may be my first stop.

Lilae · Post by **Lilae** » Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:44 pm

You're welcome any time <3

/big hugs

WUNBadassTHANE · Post by **WUNBadassTHANE** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:03 am

Trust me dar. Once you step in that house. You will relax beyond compare.

I remember when I stayed there. I sat down on that couch and I swear every joint in my body popped. That was the FIRST time i slept over 6 hours I couldnt tell you how long.

Spehonfyr · Post by **Spehonfyr** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 11:18 am

You'll be in my heart.....

Lager · Post by **Lager** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 11:47 am

Hey Grym! Don't you worry a bout a damn thing when it comes to us. You just watch yer ass and get home so we can play!

Spehonfyr · Post by **Spehonfyr** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 1:04 pm

Bro, I appreciate that...but I can not keep from thinking about you either. this deployment has put a severe strain on MY marriage as well.

Spehonfyr · Post by **Spehonfyr** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 1:06 pm

At least if she divorces me..I will get half of what I make....instead of her getting all of it now.

McPhisto · Post by **McPhisto** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 3:58 pm

Dar- sorry to hear that bud. your always welcome in the land down under for some RnR

Seph - that goes for you to.

All VT - that goes for you too.

If you dont believe me, ask Killmour, he brought a mate down and stayed at my place for a few days. had a ball he recons.

Spehonfyr · Post by **Spehonfyr** » Fri Jan 06, 2006 2:19 am

kewl bro...may take you up on it...

Lager · Post by **Lager** » Fri Jan 06, 2006 8:11 pm

I tried to convince my wife that we've had alot of hard times right now and with a little more patience, and more focus on us you can feel that love again. When the bad outweighs the good, love does not have that chance to be as strong as it could be. I don't buy that out of love BS or... "It's not you, it's me." Marriage is sometimes 90% run of the mill and 10% thrill, sometimes less. I told her let's get some counseling ( Something I'm totally against myself but I'll do anything.) She is against it! I asked her "If there was someone out there who could point you in the right direction and perhaps take a path you haven't taken that would lead you back to loving someone, would you take it?" She said yes... So I'll find a counselor. Not like she has a choice because I'm not signing divorce papers until we exhaust all options. That marriage license is a contract ... bottomline, I'm not breaking it that easy.

Spehonfyr · Post by **Spehonfyr** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 5:18 am

Yes, marriage is not fast food.